PRINCIPLE  SEVEN: 

If you don't tell your story, someone else will

Every organization already has a story in the minds of their audience.

Being intentional about that story helps people understand why you matter and remember you for the right reasons.

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Start with telling a better story

When I started at Yale Hospitality, I found out someone else had already written part of our story. The Yale Sustainable Food Project had built a powerful narrative around food on campus. Local farming, responsible sourcing, culinary education, sustainability, all of it tied to their name. More than that, they'd been telling people for years that they were the ones shaping what students actually ate at Yale. Compelling story. Wrong story. That was the problem.

Yale Hospitality was serving roughly 11,000 meals a day, backed by dozens of professionally trained chefs and a wide network of sourcing partnerships. But campus perception was being shaped by an organization running a small teaching farm, part of which was growing flowers. We could've spent years arguing over who deserved credit. Instead I decided we needed to tell a better story.

So we stepped back from the collaboration and started showing people what Yale Hospitality actually was. We brought students into our kitchens. We brought in vendors and culinary partners. We built Foodie events around global flavors, responsible sourcing, local farms, giving students something they could see, taste, and actually talk about. The story changed because the experience changed. We didn't need to convince anyone Yale Hospitality mattered. We just gave them more reasons to believe it.

That whole experience taught me storytelling isn't about controlling the narrative. It's about being intentional with the truth you put out into the world, and making sure the experience gives people something worth repeating.

What this taught me...

  • If you're not telling your story, someone else is probably filling in the blanks.

  • Don't fight a better story. Create a better experience.

  • If the experience doesn't support the story, eventually the audience will rewrite it for you.